Tuesday, July 22, 2008

FetLife

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Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Dear Readers,

Some of us have been on holiday these past few weeks and within a few days, we will be posting more reviews.

Monday, June 16, 2008

Rapture's Musing

Rapture's Musing is either an emotional masochists dream or to the lay person, a nightmare of a read. If there has ever been a blog that negatively portrays consensual slavery, than this is it folks. Never have we read a more confused "slave's" (using the term extremely lightly) musings as we did when reading this blog. It's almost a shit or get off the pot scenario, to put it bluntly. This slave has no business in an M/s relationship let alone posting her neurotic ramblings for the internet world to read. What we all asked was, "Where the hell is this ones Owner and why hasn't he done something about this travesty called a blog."

We can't stress enough for people new to M/s not to read this blog. We can sum up her blog in one word: miserable. This is a woman who writes the same crap repeatedly but in different words and uses different headings to express the same sentiment, misery. Miserable is how you will feel if you sit and read this blog as we did. It was beyond painful and guess what, we couldn't get the time back we spent reading this drivel.

From her assorted physical and mental health issues, we get the feeling that M/s is not a good lifestyle for her. She constantly feels like a failure, has no will to be a slave in the first place and again we ask ourselves, "Where the hell is the Owner and why is she off her meds?" Apparently they are married so they must be living together, so does he just not care how this reflects on him or does he not care for her or their M/s union. We believe it's a combination of all and this is the sort of couple that gives M/s a bad name.

On top of all this misery, these two have now got three children to contend with and maybe they will open their eyes once and for all that M/s is not a good life choice for them as a couple. Hopefully they can salvage what they have left between them and become good parents to these children and just live as husband and wife. That apparently is what she has been hoping for all along.

If you are into drama ala' Jerry Springer style, than read this blog but if you really want to learn about M/s as a lifestyle, then do yourself a big favor and skip this one.
http://rapturemusing.blogspot.com/

Educational Meter 0/5
Pathetic Meter 5/5
Laugh Meter 3/5

Saturday, June 14, 2008

SD! Formerly known as TSR

In the beginning there was a message board that formed around the notion that M/s could be done 24/7 and a refuge was created. It was a place where you did not have to constantly explain that “yes you can live this 24/7”. A place where the idea was a starting point for interesting conversations with likeminded individuals, who were interested in branches of psychology and theories that grew from them. It was not busy, but it was intellectual.

Slowly the place grew and became the Slave Register, where you could register and receive a personal number that was yours alone. If you changed your owner, you could change your details to reflect this. Some people took a great deal of pride in their numbers and had them tattooed on their person. The boards were used by people who were often well educated, thoughtful and capable of holding a well mannered debate.

TSR prospered and grew larger with every passing day. Over time more people joined that were often more strident in their one twue wayism and more often the debates got bogged down in the definition of terms, despite them being clearly defined. Still the board grew and changed. Being a largely unmoderated site (it had never needed them in the past) debates grew more contentious.

Seeing what was going on, the owner decided that part of the problem was conflict between those who lived 24/7 and those OLR so he opened the doors wider and encompassed their needs with boards of their own. Meanwhile his circumstances had changed from M/s to D/s so the focus was changed to incorporate this and the M/s became a subsection of 24/7. He changed the name and one morning SD! was born.

So where are we now? is probably a question on the lips of many. The insightful, intelligent and lively debate is more strident, aggressive and illiterate than it once was and many of the members who gave it the character and flavor have left or become silent. It still grows with every passing day, but it is not the haven for 24/7 M/s that it was. Which is a great shame, but we are sure very few have noticed or will admit that bigger is not necessarily better.
http://www.seekdiscipline.com/

Laugh Out Loud Meter: 2/5
Pathetic Meter: 1/5
Educational Meter: 3.5/5

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

g Tight Laced Slave

If you can only do a long distance M/s relationship at this time, than there is no better, more informative blog than g Tight Laced Slave. g takes us on a journey from when she is first collared to her Master G, her first corset, piercings, butt plug and gag. She travels back and forth between her home and the state of Florida where he resides quite often.

In vivid detail, we the reader seem present at every exciting, sad, happy, and joyful moment of her new life as a slave. We read the slight fear of when she made the mistake of opening the car door instead of waiting for her Master to do it for her. We relished in the joy she had of her new collar, new labia piercings and the funny moments going through security at the airport. One of the most fascinating posts was of her corset party. A small gala affair for friends that was not only catered at a bed and breakfast but also had a corsetiere who lectured on the history of corsets and brought some extraordinary examples with her to show them.

Another thing we found interesting was her depth of honesty about her Master being a white man and that she is black. It's an interesting insight into both of their minds as to why she wanted a white Master and he a black slave.

What we at LBR love about this blog is the realness and insight into an M/s relationship that right now must be long distance. What is different than most LDR relationships is that this couple has made time to see each other often. Sometimes for very long weekends, a couple of weeks or even a month here and there. This is certainly an incredible blog to read for anyone and not just people in long distance M/s. This blog is full of pictures, knowledge and many great ideas. When you have some spare time, since it's a long read like any good book, please do yourself a favor and take a journey into g slave's world. You won't regret it.
http://gtightlacedslave.blogspot.com/

Educational Meter: 4 out of 5
Laugh Meter: 4 out of 5 for all the right reasons

Collarme and Collarchat

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Monday, June 9, 2008

Under His Hand

So you want to be a slave, not one of those pampered make-believe ones, but the other kind. Well before you step off the kitty litter or the pillow, here is something to read. Under His Hand is the blog of a slave or a cunt if you prefer her term, as she explores the “ups and downs of a Master/cunt relationship”.

It is compelling reading and even if you are not that much of a pain slut, there is definitely food for thought in her entries. It is a candid, no hold bared examination of a life many outside the lifestyle would find deeply disturbing. Actually there is probably a few in the lifestyle who would find it disturbing. Amongst the M/s there is warmth, humor and a keen sense of self depreciation in her blog and even when being cheeky and irreverent, it is never disrespectful.

This is the blog of a woman who has found her place in the universe and while many would question her choice, you never question her commitment.
http://underhishand.com/

Laugh Out Loud Meter: 5/5 for the right reasons
Pathetic Meter: 0/5
Educational Meter: 5/5